Single Tequila, 55

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Not important Shante, 34

I've been divorced since. I agreed (rather stupidly, in hindsight) to await for support payments to commence until after the sale of the marital residence. My ex was ordered Sexy women looking sex Fallon to pay the mortgage and utilities until the house sold and in turn, I was allowed to stay in the house. (Sounds fair, right?) Well, I found out in the fall that he stopped making mortgage payments on the house in of and the mortgage company began foreclosure proceedings. (I am not on the note, just the title) We relisted the home as a short sale and the realtor dropped us in since we had no bona fide offers for even $ , less than the mortgage balance. My ex then modified the with the lender (countrywide)once he realized he might have to make support payments instead, which he refuses to do. The only way I can change the settlement agreement is to take him back to court and I don't have the funds to do that. Re-modifying buys him more time. I just found out that he is in default of the new mod as well and the house is again in the process of foreclosure. I know I've been too nice during this whole process and I've been told I am doing an disservice to my by not going after support which is in their best interest. I've been spending all my hard earned income on taking care of them myself and could care less about the material aspects that resulted from the marriage. It is truly time to move on. Should I continue status quo until the mortgage company kicks me out of here or should I try to represent myself in court against my ex and his lawyer friends? Single Nadine, 38